Lesson one from 2009: there is more than one lesson!

I’m fortunate – I don’t work in a salt mine – though I do like my life to have full flavour. These are my New Year’s day ramblings looking back on my leadership lessons from 2009. They’re personal to me – there’s only one person in the world you can change – and for me, that’s me.  I’ve put in italics what these things mean to me.  They might not mean the same thing or anything to you.  That’s okay.

  1. Being happy really is important, really important.  Could be all there is!  Will you follow an unhappy leader?
  2. There is no superhero who can change anything!  (except you).  You’re the leader, so lead.
  3. We all have a default expression – mine is grim, so I better watch it ‘cos I’m laughing inside!  First impressions can count.
  4. I love distance running – the more I do the better I feel.  It helps me to focus, solve problems, keep healthy, try ideas out with my fellow runners and I see more of the country than I ever thought possible.  A healthy leader is around longer.
  5. Give.  That was a promise I made in March.  It’s an attitude shift and much easier and more rewarding than I thought it would be.  It’s not  to be confused with marketing or sampling.  It’s giving only.  Leadership is about giving for others.
  6. Twelve months ago I was going through changes.  Many people helped me for which I am very grateful.  I notice there are people right now going through similar changes.  I hope I can return the support given to me to others.  Leadership is about giving for others (again!)
  7. I’ll never give up having fun and laughing.  Authenticity.
  8. Someone will wrong you.  But in the end you’ll learn so much you will be grateful for the experience. Reflection is a powerful leadership habit.
  9. I try not to pretend.  Authenticity.

In 2010 I want to let my creativity flow to discover new ways to continue to learn about leadership with other happy people who want to make a difference.  Full flavour for me in 2010.

So when I say happy new year, the happy part really is important.

Happy new year!

Stephen

ps did you know that in New Zealand’s largest wine growing region, Marlborough, we mine salt?


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Hey Santa, do you have the time?

As I write this Santa will be weaving his way around the suburbs delivering gifts to all the children and the children in us. It’s amazing how he finds the time.

This afternoon I visited someone in prison I know who is serving time for a teenage wrongdoing decades ago. It’s sad, but he’s strong and resilient and looking forward to having it all behind him.

It made me reflect about giving. What can you give to a prisoner? Actually, the only thing you can really give is your time. They’re not allowed anything else.

Strange thing that thing time. That’s what our kids want from us too, more than anything.

And so do all the people in our team. The leader with time. Quite simple really.

This evening I went to St Matthew’s in the City for the midnight carol service.   I don’t go to church but I do enjoy carols and I have discovered St Matthews as a place that embraces goodness and love – that’s good enough for me!  The church was packed. The organ was fantastic and my singing, well, what can I say? It sounded good on the inside!

We reflected at the service for a time on those who weren’t having a great year including those in prison. I don’t mind admitting I felt tearful.

But I know the most powerful gift I can give is time.  Giving also gives me strength and resilience.  That’s a pretty good bonus to keep.

Do you have the time?

I’m sure like Santa we can make some great time for everyone that matters.

Merry Christmas everyone.


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Better the devil you know

He’s a funny character. Inappropriately dressed for our southern hemisphere summer, a bit dodgy at times, but somehow the old guy survives. You can’t deny that if the test of leadership is followers, then Santa has to be up there with the best!

Situational leadership it may be, but none-the-less he has most pre-teen kids (and quite a few teens too) wrapped around his little finger.

The thought of his presence in the local mall is enough to send hundreds of locals scurrying to visit.

Promises he makes, none of which he can fulfill, but rarely are his followers let down thanks to his wide network of parent-helpers. Imagine if the PTA had this sort of commitment.

“You be good or Santa won’t visit” they say, and the kids follow.

You have to say, his influencing skills are second to none too.

So when you look at his leadership characteristics – wide network of followers, even wider network of supporters, able to influence just by his presence, appears relaxed but clearly high energy, carbon neutral transport system and last but not least, authentic dress style – unmoved by trends.

There is an undercurrent of stick as well as carrot and I’ve often worried about alternative uses of the letters in his name and some other guy who’s often red too.

What the hell, it’s a bit of fun, and we’ve known him all our lives so I say better the devil you know!

Go Santa. What can I help you with?

ps Christmas Music here

Thinking about Leadership

Here’s a thought: purchase a Rubik’s Cube like I did this afternoon.  It’s a thing of ordered beauty – structured lines and colours – neatly held in its box.

When James Lockhart from Massey University asked me to speak about Thought Leadership to a group of Crown Company Directors I readily accepted.  “Thought Leadership you say – I’m sure that by the time I get there I’ll know what that is!”.  

This was a senior group of directors  – it didn’t take much to work out that they had a thought or two already.  My sub-heading was “Good Kiwi – Bad Kiwi” – what we do well and what we could do better.  Out of generations of experience and economic ups and downs has grown mature and properly developed systems for managing risk and expectations in the government sector. 

So?  I put up a slide containing references to statement of intent, SOE Act, RMA etc.  Do any directors need to deal with these things? I asked.  “All of them” said one director.

It is proper that our expectations, legal obligations and risks are managed.  To not do so would be reckless.  It is also proper that the senior leadership of any organisation nurture and role-model a culture of thinking.  To not do so is equally reckless.   It is of course easy for those who would like to encourage more innovative business to proclaim “let them take more risks!” .   As one director rightly challenged “as directors of a crown company we need to work within the confines of the risk appetite of the shareholder”.  True.  

What is really important is that all levels of an organisation are given the freedom to think. That doesn’t sound too complex does it?  But in my experience many managers are simply afraid to go beyond their functional areas of focus. We see it on leadership development courses where deliberately ambiguous problems are given “but what exactly do we need to deliver?” they ask.  Like real business, often we don’t know, we don’t even know necessarily what the problem is.  Whatever we do to develop a thinking and learning culture, it isn’t going to happen by agendas and ordered processes. 

My presentation covered all sorts of topics: authenticity, trust, innovation, risk, my family holidays from Christchurch to Auckland, accompianed by some un-business photographs.  I didn’t tie it all in – there simply wasn’t time.  Several people said to me after that they would have liked me to have had more time.  That felt good, but on reflection I’m glad I didn’t.  To engage our thinking requires us to deal with ambiguity, complexity and things that don’t fit in neatly.  It’s up to us to put it in order.  Not the person at the front or up the top.  It’s their job to stimulate and inspire the thinking.

In the words of one senior director:  “It’s the responsibility of the chair through the board to show strong leadership to steer the company’s direction”.   It’s then up to us all to think using our unique gifts to make sense of it.  As leaders, role-modelling Thought Leadership by allowing, nuturing and requiring those in our team and organisation the freedom to think is not at all risky.  In fact, anything else is for the machines.

The Rubik’s Cube is now a challenge – one that will exercise the mind and stimulate.  Like our organisations, it has structure, but making sense of it requires innovation and thinking.  There’s a thought.

Thanks to James Lockhart from Massey University for the opportunity, Ed Bernacki who hosted much of the day, and to the Crown Ownership Monitoring Unit for putting up with me presenting their director requirements without prior warning!

Stephen


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